I strongly believe that every man has the specifications he looks for in a woman. However, there are some which are general and whether you like it or not, you need to have such in her. Check this out.
1. She understands/believes your dream: Every responsible man has a dream pursuing and expecting to accomplish it! The woman should be able to understand what you want to achieve. In other words, she should be ready to fight with you in the pursuit of that dream. If she doesn't even believe in your dream, chances are high that you are not compatible.
2. She controls the zip of her mouth: Naturally most women talk a lot. I pray some of them don't shower me with words for saying that. But, you see, some women can go to the extent of discussing their marital home with friends. It breaks the home! Not everything is discussed everywhere. She should be sensitive to that and control her tongue from rolling anyhow anywhere. In your dating period, you can tell if she talks without breaks.
3. Home Lover/Home keeper: For a house to be a home, it depends mostly on the woman. If she doesn't love the home, she sees preparing food at home as what she loves, but as a burden and will prefer you guys should eat outside. Outside eating is cancelled once you are married. Once a while wouldn't be bad but not as a habit. I'm the type who rarely eat outside food, I only do so now because I'm not married. When I marry, homemade is my favourite!
If she doesn't love the home, she cares less of the state of the house, it's not her sole responsibility though, she has much to do. A messy home definitely will be causing confusion now and then. If the man drops something on the table, comes back and the wife drops it in the hall! This alone can cause misunderstanding if it's happening always. Most busy men are unable to keep the table in order, a woman who can keep the home does it like magic! But men, learn not to mess up the table!
4. Supportive or hardworking: By hardworking I don't mean she should be doing everything in the home. But she shouldn't be the wife who is good at sitting in the sitting room and all she does is to watch TV and be waiting for darling to come home with goodies! It's not a good sign. Guys, detect early and wise up. Know her hobbies, it's a clue.
5. Hygienic: Cleanliness in marriage is very necessary. It might be overlooked, but a dirty home breeds uneasiness. A woman must be clean always. The plates can't be packed uncleaned for a day. It will lead to the formation of mould which isn't good for the health of the family. But how will you know if she does those at home? Check what she loves doing when at home.
Personal cleanliness is also very necessary. It cannot be condoned. There's a vast difference between a woman's dirty items and a man's dirty items. The ladies themselves know that.
And O, you probably were expecting me to start with God fearing. Well, almost every lady now claims to be God fearing. In fact, we meet most of the ladies in our Churches. So we assume they fear God. But what stands out is that, every God fearing woman will do almost everything that is mentioned above. Better still, we can add point number 6 to be God fearing. Her character should reflect her beliefs.
I wish you the best in your search for a compatible future wife, if you have a partner already, you can work things out. There's no perfect woman. Think about it.
It's always been your friend. Stay tuned.
Michael Akparibo Alung
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