7 tips to making a long distance relationship fun😊

Are you struggling in a long-distance relationship? Or you want to go into one?
May be long-distance relationship is not your thing, but you have found this cool dude or lady, and the chemistry is already piercing the skies.
Do not worry, I have good news for you.
Your long-distance relationship can also work, check how:

• Have virtual dates:

Does this sound weird? haha. maybe, it does, but, it is possible and fun. If you can read this, then you can have a virtual date!
Here is how: both parties get your favourite drinks. Set up your room for a date. You can spread the room with your favourite lighting.
Video calls are available for people like you. During the video call, make it 'real'. Try it out. You have Zoom, Facebook, Whatsapp, and Facetime on the apple store, and other video calling apps.

• Read a book together:

Reading is like travel, allowing you to exit your own life for a bit, and to come back with a renewed, even inspired, perspective-Laurie Helgoe.
Exit your own life and connect with your partner's. Yah. Once both of you are conscious of what you are doing together, it connects your souls and spirit.

Have reviews of those books; share your experiences and lessons learnt from the book. It first appears difficult until you start. Why don't you? I recommend, The 5 love languages, by Gary Chapman, 10, 000 miles for love, by Milena Nguyen, and self-development books.

• Play online games together:

Tried playing video games together? Even with a friend? How was the feeling? I promise you, this will get your hearts connected. Much as this requires a data bundle, it tells you the sacrifice you have to put in to make the relationship fun and working. Words with friends works like scrabble. It can make your mind active and your hearted joined.

• Do not make your conversion rigid:

Lovers would at all times want to stay in communication, however, when communication is wrongly done, it becomes a toxin for the relationship.Write letters to each other. Be creative about it. Put imagery in your writings. Revisit good old memories. It is not everything about the past that is wrong. Highlight the positives and keep yourself happy at all times.

• Trust:

This one word can either ruin or make a relationship triumph. If there is no trust in the relationship, the truth is that it will struggle; it will hurt; it can tear your heart apart.
Anytime your partner goes somewhere and goes back home after the planned time of getting home, there would be turbulence in your tummy. haha. You cannot play with this even in a relationship that is not distant. Build trust.

• Be transparent and honest:

Information is powerful. If I do not want you to know anything about me, I will only keep the information from you.
Communicate openly with your partner. Say the truth at all times even if it is difficult. Let him/her know much about you that they won't believe whatever someone else tells them about you.

• Invest in the relationship:

Love happens by a feeling but grows by work. The butterflies will be suffocated after one or two misunderstandings. It is not wrong to disagree, what happens afterwards is important. How do you manage and solve misunderstandings?You need to invest time and money to keep the relationship growing. A relationship is life and has to be nurtured all the time.
Yes, love isn't always about money, but you need money to take care of the basic needs of the relationship.

Dear friend, among all that has been said, find what works for you and follow it. It is not a-one-thing-works-for-all. You are unique and have what works for you.
People have married from long-distance relationships; yours can work too.

Have a lovely cruise in your long-distance relationship.

                                           

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